Here are 22 things that could be stopping you from living your best freaking life:

1. Avoiding experiences because of fear of the unknown

2. People pleasing

3. People pleasing (again), because it has killed more dreams than one can imagine, so it deserves to be mentioned twice

4. Over-explaining yourself to people who don’t understand your path

5. Brooding over past mistakes instead of creating a better future

6. Your phone

7. Lack of goals

8. A victim mentality: believing the world is against you

9. Forcing yourself to fit into spaces you’ve outgrown

10. Escaping real effort by doing things that keep you busy rather than doing the hard things

11. Lack of focus on a single goal

12. Following your feelings blindly rather than your plans

13. Giving up too quickly

14. Not giving your 1000% (Half-assing it)

15. Not reading enough books

16. Centering your life around others, especially your partner

17. Not investing money and time in yourself (skill building)

18. Not spending money on getting help so you have more time to work on your own things

19. Unhealthy food

20. Lack of good quality sleep

21. Shitty friends (make better, high-quality ones)

22. Not willing to embarrass yourself enough